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Letter to my "doctor"

topic posted Wed, May 30, 2007 - 12:37 PM by  Unsubscribed
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Here is my first draft. Feedback would be appreciated. Is anyone aware of any organized letter writing campaigns directed towards doctors? Can spot the gramatical error that MS Word found in this sentence: "The practice of circumcision cannot be rationally defended by any thinking or feeling human being."?

Dear doctor Moon:

I will try to remain civil here, but in the past I have felt a strong desire that grave misfortune would befall you. When I was but a helpless infant of several days, you stole something of inestimable value from me. I am talking about my foreskin. For the next generation of boys, I earnestly hope that you have seen the error of your ways and have began to make amends for acts that you have committed in the past. If not, I hope that I can help to show you the light.
The practice of circumcision cannot be rationally defended by any thinking or feeling human being. This goes beyond negligence and into the realm of institutionalized abuse. I will not go into the drawbacks of circumcision in great deal here, as they have been clearly spelled out in many documents. It is commonly expressed that the rationalization for circumcision is somewhat akin to the logic of cutting off one’s hand so one will not get frostbite. However, this analogy is not entirely accurate, as medical problems caused by the foreskin are much less common than frostbite. On the other hand, unsubstantiated claims have been made that circumcision will help to reduce the risk of HIV infection. Just as wearing gloves will substantially reduce the risk of frostbite, wearing a condom will substantially reduce the risk of contracting HIV. Both are simple to do and do not necessitate the removal of an important part of the body. Other likely consequences of circumcision include psychological problems such as impoverished self-esteem, rage, distrust, and resentment. Circumcision inevitably causes sexual problems, but the extent of these problems is difficult to discern, as the routine practice of neonatal circumcision in the United States conveniently gives many men no standard for comparison. Adult men who were circumcised later in life and women who have had both circumcised and intact partners usually claim that much is lost when the foreskin is removed. Other consequences of circumcision are cosmetic. Any claims that a circumcised penis is more attractive are obviously highly influenced by normative and cultural factors. Personally, I find the denuded penis to appear sickly.
My mother says that I urinated on you during the “procedure”. This causes me a modicum of satisfaction, but I had considered seeking further justice through legal means. I have decided against this course of action for the present time, but I wholeheartedly hope that you will give this matter serious thought.
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    Re: Letter to my "doctor"

    Wed, May 30, 2007 - 1:14 PM
    I think that I should also add something about it not being his choice to make, as that is the most important issue, IMHO.

    "What? The land of the free?
    Whoever told you that is your enemy!"

    -Zack de la Rocha
    • Re: Letter to my "doctor"

      Wed, May 30, 2007 - 1:47 PM
      What a great idea, to address your doctor directly.

      However, you letter begins and ends with statements that could easily be perceived as threats.
      My gut says to keep away from anything resembling threats,
      and focus on your own personal story.

      I haven't met a doctor yet that was interested in being told by a patient that what he learned in school was wrong.
      You make good points, but since this is a letter from an individual survivor to an individual health "care" professional, I think you'll really pack a punch with personalized version of the facts above. (aggravatingly, I can't see your letter as I type this response...)

      I'd love to see a closing paragraph that sums up what you say about your own regrets about having been subjected to unwanted mutilation & amputation, then states very clearly what you hope to accomplish by writing the letter.

      What is your goal?
      To simply get your feelings off your chest?
      For him to consider the gravity of what he did to you?
      To elicit an apology from him?
      To convince him to stop performing MGM?

      Would you be willing to sit down and speak with him in person?

      It is considered to be your parents' choice to make, though ethical doctors refuse to perform frivolous cosmetic surgery, especially on minors, especially when the minor himself cannot voice an opinion until he's crying in pain :(

      Remember that it's profoundly likely that he himself was robbed of his foreskin, and denial runs deep, especially as you age, especially as you perform hundreds of circs during that aging process...

      Best of luck to you.
      It might sound weird coming from a stranger, but I'm proud of you.
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        Re: Letter to my "doctor"

        Thu, May 31, 2007 - 3:00 AM
        Good suggestions!

        That isn't nearly as threating as what I had originally intended, but I suppose you're right. I have been taking the high road on this, turning to spirituality. Ideally, I would like to achieve all of the goals that you mentioned, but achieving only one of those goals would make the endeavour worthwile.
        My mother was naively duped into going along with it. I assume that my father was in denial about his own status, as mentioned in your post, but I can't clarify his motives as he died when I was young. Of course the doctor was really pushing it too, using the "prevents infection" argument.
        • Re: Letter to my "doctor"

          Thu, May 31, 2007 - 5:25 PM
          Matt, I also think that your previous post was very moving. Though I would temper the language a bit and continue to take the high road as you suggested, I think it really shows how this has affected you on an emotional level. Could you combine the letter below with the one from your previous post?
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            Re: Letter to my "doctor"

            Fri, June 1, 2007 - 3:31 AM
            I have made some additions, which express my feelings more clearly. My letter would probably be more effective if I toned down the language when adressing the doctor and tried to be more diplomatic. On the other had I want him to really understand that I hold him to be responsible and that I am furious with him. I will have to think over which version I will send. I should also be careful, lest I myself be accused of verbal abuse by some sick twist of fate.

            Italics were used in some parts for emphasis...


            Dear doctor Moon:

            I will try to remain civil here, but in the past I have felt a strong desire that grave misfortune would befall you. When I was but a helpless infant of several days, you stole something of inestimable value from me. I am talking about my foreskin. For the next generation of boys, I earnestly hope that you have seen the error of your ways and have began to make amends for acts that you have committed in the past. If not, I hope that I can help to show you the light.
            The practice of circumcision cannot be rationally defended by any thinking or feeling human being. This goes beyond negligence and into the realm of institutionalized abuse. It is commonly expressed that the rationalization for circumcision is somewhat akin to the logic of cutting off one’s hand so one will not get frostbite. However, this analogy is not entirely accurate, as medical problems caused by the foreskin are much less common than frostbite. On the other hand, unsubstantiated claims have been made that circumcision will help to reduce the risk of HIV infection. Just as wearing gloves will substantially reduce the risk of frostbite, wearing a condom will substantially reduce the risk of contracting HIV. Both are simple to do and do not necessitate the removal of an important part of the body. Other likely consequences of circumcision include psychological problems such as impoverished self-esteem, rage, distrust, and resentment. My very faith in humanity and civilization has been shaken. Circumcision inevitably causes sexual problems, but the extent of these problems is difficult to discern, as the routine practice of neonatal circumcision in the United States conveniently gives many men no standard for comparison. Adult men who were circumcised later in life and women who have had both circumcised and intact partners usually claim that much is lost when the foreskin is removed. The degree of functioning that circumcised men do experience is a testament to the power of love and the robustness of the human mind and spirit. With proper chemistry and psychic connections and the soft touch of a woman, these traumas can be forgotten and confidence restored. It seems to me as if the consequences are most salient when one is alone. Rather than being able to “make love” to oneself, the act of masturbation becomes an act of abuse. The venture is of little intrinsic value as the natural sensations and motions are almost completely destroyed. To compensate many men must do the act to excess, trying to regain lost satisfaction. Rather than spending quality time with oneself in a pure and simple manner as nature intended, masturbation becomes a huge production necessitating external visual stimulation and the application of copious amounts of synthetic lubricants, which contain ingredients which are known to be linked to endocrine disruption and cancer. This self abuse and self-loathing sends shockwaves of hate throughout society. Other consequences of circumcision are cosmetic. Any claims that a circumcised penis is more attractive are obviously highly influenced by normative and cultural factors. Personally, I find the denuded penis to appear sickly. The contrast is striking. The mutilated penis is frightened, rough, desiccated, and marked by blemishes and imperfections while the intact member spends most of it’s time safe and happy in it’s protective covering, emerging when the time is right to reveal majestic, glistening splendor, proud and free, a marvel of natural engineering. By far the greatest losses from circumcision are the losses in liberty. Simple-minded people claim that this is a “free country”, as if there were some objective and absolute threshold marking freedom. In my opinion there is no greater freedom than my birthright to be born a complete and healthy human being, as nature intended. I feel as if I have been ostracized from the natural world.
            I only recently came out of denial in regards to my circumcision. I had led myself into holding backwards beliefs and convincing myself that I had not been circumcised. I cannot begin to describe the horror caused by these revelations. There I stood in the shower, unable to look at that thing. I was wailing and whimpering. I felt filthy and dejected. It all seemed unreal. I kept repeating to myself in disbelief: “how could anybody do that to a helpless infant?”.
            My mother says that I urinated on you during the “procedure”. This causes me a modicum of satisfaction, but I had considered seeking further justice through legal means. I have decided against this course of action for the present time, but I wholeheartedly hope that you will give this matter serious thought.
            • Re: Letter to my "doctor"

              Fri, June 1, 2007 - 12:05 PM
              My dear friend,

              join our movement to stop this genital cutting insanity. Come to our demonstrations and events to raise consciousness against this child torturing crime, the forbidding of love or self love, the most extreme physical form of sexual oppression. It is our duty to protect our little brothers from the knives of these brain sick genital mutilators. We are all uniting now, circumcised and uncircumcised, to show those sickos what's up. Don't hesitate to give your abuser abusive words, they deserve it and honestly, when you think with a clear mind, they actually deserve to go to jail. Jail may be one way to stop them if they don't listen to us now. Endorse the MGM Bill at MGMbill.org. Tell our politicians that we have had it with them not interfering and treating this cruelty performed on our children as a low priority on their agenda. I sometimes think that I am the crazy one for fighting circumcision, but I realize that the society I live in, everybody who ignores this extreme ugly and disgusting barbaric rape on children, everybody who lets it happen is crazy and not just crazy, they are all insane and guilty.

              Blessings and Healing,
              Gladiator, Warrior of Love
              --
              Most comprehensive Collection of Information * www.cirp.org
              National Organization of Circumcision Information Resource Center * www.nocirc.org
              Doctors Opposing Circumcision * faculty.washington.edu/gcd/DOC/
              Nurses for the Rights of the Child * www.cirp.org/nrc/
              Attorneys for the Rights of the Child * www.arclaw.org/
              Circumcision Resource Center * Jewish Issues * www.circumcision.org/
              Students for Genital Integrity * studentsforgenitalintegrity.org/
              National Organization to Halt Abuse and Routine Mutilation of Males * noharmm.org/
              Mothers Against Circumcision * www.mothersagainstcirc.org/
              In Memory of the Sexually Mutilated Child * www.sexuallymutilatedchild.org/
              Ashley Montagu Resolution * Nobel laureates * MontaguNOCIRCpetition.org/
              National Organization of Restoring Men * foreskin restauration * www.norm.org/
              www.youtube.com/watch
              Reveal the truth * www.StopInfantCircumcision.org
              My activities * people.tribe.net/gladiator...ove/photos
              • Re: Letter to my "doctor"

                Fri, June 1, 2007 - 12:15 PM
                Abuse begets abuse. Rage begets rage.

                When we work FOR something: healing, learning, letting-go of old beliefs...

                we have much better success than when we beat our heads against the walls trying to fight evil.

                Fire doesn't fight fire- cooling water does.

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